We are gathered here in the presence of this company to join Cory and Jade in marriage. Nothing worthwhile in life is sudden.  We wait for birth.  We wait for life to reveal its meaning, year by year, experience by experience.  Waiting is the law of life, the measure of love. When two individuals meet, so do two private worlds.  None of our private worlds is big enough for us to live a wholesome life in.  We need the wide world of joy and wonder, of purpose and venture, of toil and tears.  What are we, any of us, but strangers and sojourners forlornly wandering through the night until we draw together and find the meaning of our lives in one another, dissolving our fears in…